Wisdom is essential in building a strong family and home life. Women have innumerable people, projects, and loyalties competing for their time and attention. Proverbs tells us that, “The wisest of women builds her house, but folly with her own hands tears it down.” In this weekly podcast wife, mother of ten, and seasoned home educator, Kara Murphy looks to God’s word for wisdom that will help women build up their families instead of tear them down. This podcast is both an encouragement and a challenge to rise above the folly that marks our culture and be HomeWise!
Boys are not girls and we shouldn’t parent them as if they are. In this episode Kara and Steve share some tips for parenting boys. Listen as they talk about how boys learn, spending time outside, getting dirty, online gaming, and raising boys that will put away boyhood and be men when they are grown.
Mothers, do not grow weary in doing good. What you are doing, raising those little ones, although it doesn’t look like it is world-changing, it is very, very, very important. It’s a good work. Even though you get tired, don’t grow weary of it. Listen as Kara shares tips on parenting through the baby and toddler years.
What if you saw the time you spend mothering your children as discipleship instead of babysitting? Simply being with your children, day in and day out, is one of the most revolutionary things you can do with your time. It changes you and it changes your kids.
What is the Main Thing for a woman? What is our main calling? Join Kara as she talks about some very specific things that women should be focusing on as our special and important calling. If you would like to submit your questions for Kara, you may do that on our contact form HERE.
How many decisions do you make in a day? Hundreds? Thousands? The decision-making process can stop moms in their tracks. Don’t let indecision take over your day! Listen as Kara talks about making decisions about everything from what to wear in the morning, to how to teach your children.
One of the most difficult battles for stay-at-home moms is discontentment. The world is telling us our lives are not fulfilling. We must not believe them! Join Kara and Steve as they talk about contentment, personal fulfillment, and the wonderful, creative, difficult job of being a mom!
Bypass the discouragement of impossible goals & start setting goals that are reachable. Consistently met small goals can add up to big progress for you and your family! When you aim for a man and miss, you miss the man but if you aim for a button on his shirt and miss, you’ll probably still hit the man. What are the small goals? I started out by getting dressed right away. Spending a few minutes streamlining and tidying the house a few times each day.
Are you a distracted mommy? How can you keep distractions from taking over your days and keeping you from accomplishing what you set out to do? Listen in as Kara Murphy talks about dealing with the endless distractions that derail our best-laid plans for being HomeWise.
Our culture pushes us to judge ourselves against others, but this can be a dangerous habit. Join Kara and Steve Murphy as they talk about how you may be sabotaging your own family by making comparisons, and share some personal experience on how to break the comparison habit.
One of the most damaging manifestations of fear in our lives is insecurity. Because we are fearful of the decisions we are making, we often act in insecurity. That is damaging to those around us, particularly to our children, but also to others as we interact with them. When we are fearful and insecure we become defensive, and instead of being able to proceed in faith, we are living in a state of constant defensiveness.
Fear is one of those primary motivations that we often don’t recognize. I, as a young mom, never thought myself as a fearful person. I was not the “sterilize the pacifier when it hits the floor” kind of mom. For me, the biggest one was a fear of failure. I was very concerned that I would not succeed as a wife, as a mother, as especially a homeschooling mom. Another fear is a fear of rejection, whether it’s fear of the rejection of those who don’t agree with our perspective on how we’re raising our children. I think a lot. . .
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